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“Do You Want To?”: How This Simple Question Can Undermine Healthy Relationships
“Do you want to [X]?” It’s a question we hear every day. It sounds innocent — polite, even. But in practice, it’s often loaded. At best, it’s unconscious communication shaped by avoidance. At worst, it’s a subtle form of manipulation. When Questions Aren’t Really...
What Does It Mean to Take Responsibility in a Relationship?
Responsibility in Relationship: Response-Ability Over Reaction Responsibility is one of those words we throw around easily — especially in conflict. “You’re not taking responsibility!” “Why do I have to be the responsible one?” “They hurt me — shouldn’t they be held...
What is Presence, really?: A Mindful Path to Mental Health
What is Presence, really?: A Mindful Path to Mental Health You might think presence is just being "in the moment, dude". You might picture a soft-spoken, tie-dye-wearing yogi or a lean, early-rising meditation teacher. And yes — there is a kind of nowness to presence....
On the Edge: A Men’s Sexuality Workshop for Edging and Ejaculatory Control
Ever felt like you were about to climax too soon?Or maybe you've wondered if it’s possible to have full-body orgasms—or even multiple—without ejaculating? Edging is the practice of bringing yourself to the brink of orgasm and staying there, again and again. It's not...
Embodied Pleasure in Practice: Two Intimate Workshops with Naked Man (Aug 5 in Melbourne)
I’m excited to announce that I’ll be co-facilitating a special double workshop evening this Tuesday, 5 August, in collaboration with Naked Man—a community known for creating powerful, playful spaces for queer men to explore sexuality, connection, and embodied...
The Chair
The Chair The chair workshop welcomes individuals to delve into their dualities of light and shadow, focusing on concepts of power dynamics. Participants will have the chance to engage in light Kink role-play, incorporating restraints, blindfolds, and sensory...
Secret Society
Get tickets HERE. What is the Secret Society? The Secret Society is so much more than a Circle Jerk. Sure, it is up to 25 men naked in a circle masturbating, however in this circle we first learn how to play with the ‘Five Erotic Pillars’ of Awareness, Breath, Sound,...
Embodiment skills workshop series
Coming Soon: Embodiment Workshop Series I'm excited to share that I’ll soon be offering a weekly series of embodiment workshops — a gentle, accessible way to deepen your connection to body, breath, sensation and self. These sessions will...
FEAST coming soon
FEAST - Festival of Embodiment & Sexual Transformation I’m thrilled to announce that I’ll be facilitating at FEAST 2025 – Festival of Embodiment and Sexual Transformation— a truly unique gathering dedicated to deepening our connection to body, pleasure, and...
Queer Meditation group
This week, I’ll be leading a Metta Meditation (also known as loving-kindness meditation) with the Queer Meditation Melbourne group. Metta is a simple yet profound practice that awakens the brain circuits of compassion and empathy—qualities that...