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Love Guys — A Queer Men’s Community in Melbourne
A welcoming new community co-operative for gay, bisexual and queer men is growing right here in Brunswick and across Melbourne. Love Guys is a not-for-profit community offering regular men’s peer support groups, workshops and connection spaces rooted in courage,...
Weekly Queer Erotic Embodiment – Online Class
A new weekly online class is launching for anyone wanting to deepen their relationship with embodied pleasure and eroticism in a queer community of practice. Weekly Queer Erotic Embodiment is facilitated by experienced somatic sex educators Tia Cloher and Sam Beer,...
Anal Massage Workshop
Who says the backdoor is just for bottoms? Your anus is capable of body-shaking pleasure – it’s also the gateway to stimulating parts of your sexual anatomy that other kinds of touch can’t reach. Add in the deeply soothing effects of anal massage and you’ve got a...
Body Worship: Pleasure Beyond Attraction
What if your capacity for pleasure was wider than your usual patterns of attraction? Body Worship is a men’s sexuality workshop that invites you to step beyond familiar erotic preferences and explore pleasure as something learned, embodied and expandable. While labels...
Intimate Ocean: A Men’s Intimacy Workshop for Deep Connection
What does it feel like to truly rest in closeness with other men? Intimate Ocean is a deeply nourishing men’s intimacy workshop for those who crave more connection, softness and cuddles in their lives. It’s an invitation to slow down, be held and rediscover the...
Backdoor to Ecstasy
Ready to explore your body’s hidden pathways to pleasure? My upcoming workshop, Backdoor to Ecstasy, invites you to experience anal touch in a way that’s sensual, grounded, and fun. Whether you’re curious, experienced, or somewhere in between, this is your invitation...
“Do You Want To?”: How This Simple Question Can Undermine Healthy Relationships
“Do you want to [X]?” It’s a question we hear every day. It sounds innocent — polite, even. But in practice, it’s often loaded. At best, it’s unconscious communication shaped by avoidance. At worst, it’s a subtle form of manipulation. When Questions Aren’t Really...
What Does It Mean to Take Responsibility in a Relationship?
Responsibility in Relationship: Response-Ability Over Reaction Responsibility is one of those words we throw around easily — especially in conflict. “You’re not taking responsibility!” “Why do I have to be the responsible one?” “They hurt me — shouldn’t they be held...
What is Presence, really?: A Mindful Path to Mental Health
What is Presence, really?: A Mindful Path to Mental Health You might think presence is just being "in the moment, dude". You might picture a soft-spoken, tie-dye-wearing yogi or a lean, early-rising meditation teacher. And yes — there is a kind of nowness to presence....
On the Edge: A Men’s Sexuality Workshop for Edging and Ejaculatory Control
Ever felt like you were about to climax too soon?Or maybe you've wondered if it’s possible to have full-body orgasms—or even multiple—without ejaculating? Edging is the practice of bringing yourself to the brink of orgasm and staying there, again and again. It's not...